Hey, no one can be positive and deep all the time.\u00a0 Something I’ve been reminded of this week.<\/p>\n
I know to the bone that not all is good and wonderful, but I’m not sure that is always conveyed in this blog.\u00a0<\/p>\n
I do try to keep to a healthy view of life.\u00a0 Which means I work on not holding excessively to negative feelings or in other words venting is good.\u00a0 There are limits to this.\u00a0 Venting or ranting all the time is bad.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Because it gives your body too many stress hormones, it fools you into thinking that your world is more horrific than it is, it makes you a miserable bitch to be around.\u00a0 It’s a straight way to lose friends and alienate people.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Venting or ranting in the moment to express how you’re honestly feeling, that’s healthy.\u00a0 Though watch your environment, not all places are suitable for ranting.<\/p>\n
And I do rant.\u00a0 Oh, how I do.\u00a0 I get so much fodder and on such a regular basis that it’s a necessary regular component of life.\u00a0 But I realized when I started this particular post that I have never ranted within this blog.\u00a0 Mind you, I can’t typically get into details given the other people involved and privacy considerations, but dammit cranky is as much an honest emotion as the sweet joy of spiritual enlightenment.\u00a0<\/p>\n
This week has been a mess of stupidity.\u00a0 Under foot, over head, through spoken, written and electronic means.\u00a0<\/p>\n
What is my spiritual take on this?<\/p>\n
That sometimes you need to get tough, get bitchy, and use the force of idiocy-induced-aggravation to fuel the boundary setting and problem solving.\u00a0 As with all things, there’s a balance.\u00a0 In this case, the polite and helpful (typically the best way to get things done) has needed to be counterbalanced by the tough attitude and the word “no”.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Can you believe that Neptune, Uranus and Jupiter are all retrograde right now?\u00a0 I can.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Saturn<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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