{"id":893,"date":"2016-12-03T04:31:33","date_gmt":"2016-12-03T04:31:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abysmalwitch.com\/?p=893"},"modified":"2016-12-03T04:31:33","modified_gmt":"2016-12-03T04:31:33","slug":"legacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abysmalwitch.com\/index.php\/2016\/12\/03\/legacy\/","title":{"rendered":"Legacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Went\u00a0by my old work place today. \u00a0Was smart and paid for the all-day parking, because once I get talking with old friends, there&#8217;s just no stopping.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been two years and things have progressed along the way they do in a large organization. \u00a0Some things changed. \u00a0Many things haven&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I saw my successor: smart, strong, confident in my old office chair, catching me up on the recent changes.<\/p>\n<p>We met years ago at an HR workshop. \u00a0I sat down beside her and discovered I knew her mother (technically she introduced herself and I cried out &#8220;oh my god, you&#8217;re Judy&#8217;s daughter!). \u00a0In the workshop they asked what we were trying to figure out in our lives at the time, what chances we wanted to take. \u00a0She wanted to take a chance on a new job. \u00a0Turned out I was looking to hire an HR Manager for a medical leave coverage. \u00a0Two years later she&#8217;d moved from our HR Manager, through special projects, into my job. \u00a0She was nervous and worried she couldn&#8217;t manage the financial aspects. \u00a0I had complete faith.<\/p>\n<p>My faith has been rewarded. \u00a0More than rewarded. \u00a0She is flourishing, as is the Department I left in her care.<\/p>\n<p>For the second year in a row, I stopped by on front office holiday decoration day. \u00a0(I have a gift for showing up when there&#8217;s treats?) \u00a0They set up the tree, put up lights, ate some goodies, decorated with bows and boxes and greenery.<\/p>\n<p>The tree is an old, fake tree. \u00a0It was actually mine. \u00a0When I moved into my current home I made a personal vow that if I couldn&#8217;t fit an item into my apartment, it had to go, no storage room pileups for me! \u00a0So one early morning I took my old, fake Christmas tree to the office (when I still worked at one) and snuck\u00a0it into the storage room with the rest of the holiday gear. \u00a0It was accompanied in that trip by a bunch of old ornaments that didn&#8217;t make the dear-to-me cut and an old tree skirt my mother made for me when I moved into the basement.<\/p>\n<p>As I walked past the closed front office on my way out of the building today, there was that tree, standing small and kind of proud, with lights and garland, decorations I recognized from my years setting up the tree there and from my old personal collection and beneath it was the tree skirt from my mother.<\/p>\n<p>(Side note: \u00a0it turns out you can&#8217;t anonymously donate a tree to a department without causing incredible kerfuffle, because apparently people don&#8217;t believe in magic tree faeries and start wondering if someone stole the neighbouring Department&#8217;s tree when they weren&#8217;t looking. \u00a0In the end I had to confess to my donation. \u00a0Sadness.)<\/p>\n<p>There were a number of other little reminders, little moments when I could smile and point my internal, mental finger at it and go &#8216;hey, I helped bring that into being!&#8217; \u00a0You know, reminders of basic operational practices that I helped create and that are still useful and going strong, things like that.<\/p>\n<p>I have left a gift of legacy. \u00a0I wasn&#8217;t perfect, and by the end I was far from perfect, but still. \u00a0I see my successor and hold deep pride that I helped bring her to that place, for her and for the Department. \u00a0I see my tree and skirt and can literally see that in odd, small ways I have left behind parts of my self that still serve.<\/p>\n<p>I am honoured to be proud.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t plan it. \u00a0It just happened. \u00a0Legacy.<\/p>\n<p>Violet<br \/>\n~The Abysmal Witch<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Went\u00a0by my old work place today. \u00a0Was smart and paid for the all-day parking, because once I get talking with old friends, there&#8217;s just no stopping. It&#8217;s been two years and things have progressed along the way they do in a large organization. \u00a0Some things changed. \u00a0Many things haven&#8217;t. 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